In Islam forgiveness follows restitution. Apologizing admits responsibility. Muslims don't accept American style apologies. In Western culture refusing a sincere apology is poor form. In Sharia justice flows from balance (good deeds outweighing bad deeds). Muslims and Judeo-Christians have different rules for reconciliation. Americans cannot successfully import western rules into Muslim situations. Reconciliation among Muslims does not involve taking responsibility and then apologizing, it involves blaming either circumstances or God and then asking for forgiveness. Last week Qur'ans were burnt because detainees 'desecrated' them by writing messages to each other in them. Somehow American generals need to say, 'This is not our fault. Some detainees were desecrating Qur'ans, and it is God's will that they have now been exposed in this way. Please forgive us.'

Pray: for God to give leaders wisdom and understanding of each others religious values and for extremist views or actions to cease. (Pr.2:6)

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